Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

What Really Counts, Revisited: Ballad of the Budget Bank


For many of us, money is even more daunting than mortality. At a recent gathering of Jewish burial fellowship leaders and friends, I was invited to talk about Generous Justice and how important it is to reclaim our family money stories. "We never discussed these things in my family," ventured one of my listeners — whereupon another one responded, "Oh, we had a budget box growing up!"

Tudor Budget Bank AdI was excited to learn about this artifact of family frugality from the decades before I was born. More sophisticated than a piggy bank or a pushke (tzedakah box), the budget bank was invented to fund multiple priorities. It was popular from the beginning of the Great Depression through the 1950s, when spending — especially on credit — began to replace saving as the dominant cultural value.


When I told the group that one of the cultural goals of Generous Justice is to promote songs that reflect healthy approaches to money, a third listener began spontaneously singing from childhood memory: "Pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters...all the joy that we can bring / to the lives of other children / with our weekly offering!"

In a world where finances have become computerized abstractions, the old-fashioned budget bank offers tangible inspiration for more mindful saving, spending, and sharing. And, while nobody has yet invented a budget-bank-music-box, that Hebrew School song seems as good a soundtrack as any.

Now, how can we help our "adult" songs — and finances — catch up with the kids?

As We Count the Days of the Omer, Let's Make Tithing Count, Too

Don't wait for those last-minute charitable disbursements in December. This season of daily counting is a perfect time to experience the liberation and revelation of just-giving. By sharing our family money stories, we can move toward more conscious sharing of the money itself — and our day-to-day generosity really does add up. LEARN MORE


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Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

Look Out — Here It Comes!


It's coming. Not just the intensive cleaning, shopping and cooking, but that annual money milestone we call Tax Day.

As IRS deadlines loom over our Passover preparations, the words of the prophet Malachi will ring out in Jewish communities throughout the world. On the "Great Sabbath" before the festival, Malachi dares us to stretch beyond occasional donations toward ongoing distributive justice:

"Bring the entire tithe into the storehouse, that there be food in My house, and so test Me in this" — said the Eternal-One of all-forces — "if I will not open the gates of heaven and pour upon you blessing without limit."

 

TithingWe don't need a belief in God to face this test as a social justice challenge. A tithe is a giving rate — a percentage of income that most of us don't consciously document. But year after year, our tax returns show that giving rates generally shrink as incomes and affluence increase. That uncomfortable truth should concern anyone preparing to say: "Let all who are hungry come and eat."


As our Haggadah also reminds us, "This year we are still slaves." Now more than ever, we need to vote with the power of our own wallets against widening income inequality, which enslaves all of us.

 

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How will this Passover be different from other Passovers? Try bringing Generous Justice: Jewish Wisdom for Just-Giving to your seder table questions. As recommended in Tablet Magazine, it's "a lively tool for book clubs and investment clubs, synagogues, families, seders with friends."


Order Generous Justice now to insure delivery in time for the holiday! (OK, those in the NYC area have a bit more time. You can purchase Generous Justice directly from Ways of Peace, without sales tax or shipping charges.)


CountingDays_Cover07Plan ahead for revelation! Complete your holiday preparations with Counting Days, a unique guide for each day between Passover and Shavu'ot that integrates Mussar (Jewish ethical development) with contemporary principles of spiritual recovery.


Counting Days is also available by mail order or by direct purchase from Ways of Peace.


Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

Sober Awakening (and Not Just for Drinkers)


Rabbah and Rabbi Zeira made a Purim feast together. They got drunk, and Rabbah rose and cut Rabbi Zeira’s throat. The next day he prayed and revived him. The following year Rabbah said: Come and let us make a Purim feast together! Rabbi Zeira replied: Not on every occasion does a miracle occur. (Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Megillah 7b)

Recent decades have seen a renewal of Mussar (spiritual / ethical development) among Jews of diverse backgrounds — while countless Jewish addicts, family members, and friends across the denominational spectrum have found healing through the Twelve Steps of recovery. Much can be learned from those who live by the Twelve Steps about how to apply the principles of Mussar to the challenges of daily life.

CountingDays_Cover07COUNTING DAYS: From Liberation to Revelation for Jews in Recovery guides readers through the season of spiritual development between Passover and Shavuot with daily reflections on Twelve Step principles, integrated with classical Jewish teachings.


It's a resource for students of Mussar and Jewish mysticism, chaplains, spiritual directors, synagogue leaders, Jewish Family Service staff, and all who care about healing the scourge of addiction within the Jewish community and beyond.

Order COUNTING DAYS now to insure delivery before Passover!*


*Those in the greater NYC area can purchase COUNTING DAYS directly from Ways of Peace, without sales tax or shipping charges.

Contact us about hosting a COUNTING DAYS video conference program in your community! We can donate a percentage of the proceeds for each book sold to your hosting synagogue or other nonprofit organization.


Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

Sanctuary: Expanded and Balanced

 

"Let them make for Me a sanctuary,
and I will dwell in their midst." — Exodus 25:8


Clouds through IronworkThe word "sanctuary" carries a range of meanings, from worship hall to wildlife preserve and beyond. In recent weeks, the word has taken on added urgency as American cities and communities organize to renew a sanctuary movement on behalf of refugees and immigrants.

A sanctuary is a place that is both safe and sacred. Safety is a core human need, and the ultimate challenge is how to expand our sanctuaries for the widest possible inclusion of those among us.


Those in the Capital District of New York are invited to join us in March for a weekend of special programs that begin to address this challenge.

MAKING A SANCTUARY:
FROM CARING COMMUNITY TO SACRED FELLOWSHIP

March 3-5 at Congregation Ohav Shalom in Albany, New York


We are taught that the world stands on a tripod of study, worship, and caring actions. When our communities run on the two legs of study and worship, the third leg of caring is often shortened. Yet the third leg is the only one that can support us “on one foot.” Come explore a new equilibrium that balances kindness and justice, as we make sanctuaries for these challenging times. LEARN MORE


Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

"Generous" Review and Book Launch Party!

 
"How to Give Jewishly—and Be Financially Smart—in the New Year"

Marjorie Ingall in Tablet Magazine, 12/30/16

Generous Justice Cover"Generous Justice is a resource for learning about Jewish philosophy as well as personal finance. It’s a guide to social action and philanthropy, and a tool for spiritual growth—a breath mint and a candy mint. It’s full of quotations about money and generosity from such diverse sources as the books of Isaiah and Deuteronomy, the writings of Maimonides, the Babylonian Talmud, the Chofetz Chayim, Suze Orman, Rabbi Jill Jacobs, and 17-year-old Hannah Salwen. Because the format consists of short readings and discussion questions, I can see it working as a lively tool for book clubs and investment clubs, synagogues, families, seders with friends." READ MORE



From Spare Change to Social Change: Book Launch Party for GENEROUS JUSTICE

Sunday, January 22nd at 6:30 PM 
East Midwood Jewish Center

1625 Ocean Avenue, Brooklyn, New York


Amidst all the uncertainty of this new political era, one thing is certain: whatever our social values may be, our financial support is needed to realize them. How can we mobilize our financial power most effectively, guided by Jewish values?

Join Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips on the eve of her father's 16th yahrtzeit for a "Torah-on-one-foot" taste of GENEROUS JUSTICE: Jewish Wisdom for Just-Giving, which is dedicated in his memory. Copies of this unique and just-published sourcebook will be available for sale and signing (without sales tax or shipping charges) after Rabbi Regina leads the brief ma'ariv / evening service at 7:30 PM.

Please CONTACT US about hosting a GENEROUS JUSTICE book launch party in your community. Depending upon arrangements, we may be able to donate a portion of the proceeds for each book sold to your hosting organization.

Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

Money and Justice in the News


We have met the funders, and they are...us!

The Forward, 12/19/16


The corner bar on my street is taking a tithe. Its sidewalk chalkboard announces that 10% of all weekend income in December will be donated to the American Civil Liberties Union.

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The bar is on to something. Amid all the uncertainty of this new political era, one thing is certain: Whatever our social values may be, our financial support is needed to realize them. Tzedakah is a financial variant of the Hebrew word for “justice,” and can be understood as “just-giving”: We should just give, and we should give justly. (...)

Tzedakah has never been a spectator sport, and it has never been the exclusive province of elites. What would happen if more of us approached our personal Jewish funding decisions as part of an empowered grassroots mobilization of individual wallets — a real force for change? (...) READ MORE

Thanks to Don Abramson and Allison Kade for inspiration and insights.

Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

Hope, Renewal, and Just-Giving: Support WAYS OF PEACE!


These are painful times of fear, anger, and divisiveness. Yet mindful responses to shared human needs continue to bring out the best in people on all sides. Hope and renewal are available — and the choices are ours.

img-handsPlease support WAYS OF PEACE Community Resources as you plan your year-end giving. Now more than ever, we need your partnership to promote peaceful coexistence, justice and kindness through community learning, personal guidance, and innovative resources for contemporary life challenges.

In 2016 we reached new milestones with the publication of our first two books, COUNTING DAYS and GENEROUS JUSTICE.* We were called to facilitate challenging conversations, expanding dialogue and support among leaders and community members. We continued to guide individuals and families through both joyous and sorrowful changes in their lives.

WAYS OF PEACE depends upon our network of individual supporters who share our vision. We have not yet received any foundation support for our pioneering model of social microenterprise. We hope you will be generous, and we promise to extend your generosity even further.*

Make your end-of-year gift to WAYS OF PEACE today!

*Just Published Guide for Just-Giving

Generous Justice CoverWhatever our visions and hopes for the world may be, our financial support is needed to realize them. Bringing together sustainability, social action, and spirituality with personal finance, GENEROUS JUSTICE is a unique one-stop guide to more effective giving throughout the year: simple, regular, and fair.

Order GENEROUS JUSTICE now — for a holiday gift that keeps "just-giving!"

Those in NYC can purchase GENEROUS JUSTICE directly from WAYS OF PEACE, without sales tax or shipping charges. Contact us for further information while supplies last!

Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

Seeing Our Choices More Clearly


“In the market, the blind cry out to the one-eyed as clear-sighted” (Genesis Rabbah 30:9). These are words from a scholarly dispute about this week's Torah portion, which declares that “Noah was a righteous man, unblemished in his generations” (Genesis 6:9).

Rabbi Yehudah interprets the statement in Genesis as veiled condemnation — in other words, Noah could only be considered righteous and unblemished when compared with the majority of his time. In a period of utter moral blindness, the “one-eyed” Noah was the greatest hope for both humanity and the earth.

Noah’s critics often focus on his apparent silence during his extended preparations for disaster — preparations which fulfill the letter of divine command, but do not reflect any active concern for those beyond his immediate family.

To pursue this line of ethical reasoning as elections approach, it might be helpful to have our own moral “eyes” examined — and bring the focus back to ourselves. (...) READ MORE

On this 21st anniversary of the assassination of Yitzhak Rabin z"l, may we continue to help each other see our own choices more clearly.

"Cause us to see clearly that the well-being of our nation is in the hands of all its citizens." (Gates of Repentance)

Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

Not Yet Sealed. Still Deliverable!


In this season of change and uncertainty — when we face the fragile structures of our own lives — we can listen for the "still, small voice" and be mindful of our small, daily opportunities to make a world of difference.

Park Paths DivergeAccording to Jewish mystical tradition, the Book of Life is not yet sealed — or alternatively, it is sealed but not yet delivered, as the season of teshuvah (re/turning, repentance) continues through the end of this festival of Sukkot (Tabernacles). The ancient sage Rabbi Eliezer goes further in declaring that the best day for teshuvah is "one day before your death" — in other words, every day of our lives.

It's easy to forget this when we are intensely focused on one big event — whether that event is the Jewish Day of Atonement or the U.S. Election Day. But our lives and our world have never depended upon a single day — or a single personality. Our "fates" are the culmination of thousands of small, daily decisions within our own power to enact.

img-handsMore than two decades ago, while organizing rural peasants during one of the periods of political upheaval that characterize Haiti, Father Joseph Philippe realized that “even though the people might control who was president, they had no control over who ruled the economy.”

With three volunteers and a borrowed building, Father Joseph started Fonkoze — an acronym for “Shoulder to Shoulder Foundation” in Haitian Creole. It is a family of organizations that work together to provide financial and related mutual support services that empower Haitians — primarily women — to lift their families out of poverty. Today Fonkoze engages more than 200,000 Haitians, primarily in hard-to-access rural areas.

"And after the hurricane...and after the earthquake...and after the fire — a still, small voice." (First Kings 19:11-12)

Butterfly HandsHaiti is the poorest country in the Americas, and one of the poorest in the world. Efforts to provide top-down assistance over the decades — through relentless natural disasters and human violence — have been notoriously unsuccessful.

But Fonkoze consistently receives superlative ratings for its effectiveness in leveraging small amounts of money for life-changing impact. And it is at the forefront of efforts to empower the most vulnerable Haitians in the aftermath of Hurricane Matthew.

In this season of change and uncertainty — when we face the fragile structures of our own lives — please listen for the "still, small voice" and be mindful of the small, daily opportunities to make a world of difference.

Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips

"Elul-vator" Speeches


It's not easy to give an "elevator speech" about money or death.

We are honored that two core programs of WAYS OF PEACE have been accepted as semi-finalists by the Lippman Kanfer Prize for Applied Jewish Wisdom. Since each program submission included an "elevator speech"—and since both are relevant to Elul, the month of turning and spiritual preparation for the Days of Awe—we would like to share our "Elul-vator" speeches with you.

Generous Justice: Jewish Wisdom for Just-Giving

All Hands InIn a world struggling with climate change and extreme financial inequality, it’s time to turn the tithe! Rooted in our ancient cycles of shmita / release, the Jewish practices of just-giving—simple, regular, and fair—are accessible to all of us. The earth can rest from our relentless consumption as we channel more of our money toward the repair of our world. Bringing together concern for the poor and vulnerable with concern for the planet, Generous Justice is the only organized Jewish presence among today’s transformative philanthropy initiatives for just-giving. LEARN MORE


Sacred Undertaking: A Natural Return to the Earth

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Our deaths impact our climate and natural ecosystems through human funeral decisions—each emotional, social, economic and environmental consideration influencing all the others. The emerging “green" burial movement affirms the ancient Jewish wisdom of the hevra kadisha / sacred burial fellowship. Sacred Undertaking reclaims the hevra kadisha as integral to a truly caring community—preserving vital natural resources, affirming human equality, supporting each other, taming our fears of death, and renewing the circle of life. LEARN MORE


The month of Elul is a traditional time for just-giving disbursements. Please know that all of our combined efforts help pave the paths to peace in our time, and our world needs what you have to offer.

With many blessings for the Season of Turning and the New Year ahead,

Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips
for WAYS OF PEACE Community Resources

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